I was over at my cousin’s to hang out yesterday, and I don’t know how we got to the topic but he said that I’m too picky to ever date anyone. He’s definitely not the first one to say that about me, sadly. A part of me thinks that it’s a good thing to be picky and shit, but the other part hates it, because I, myself, am not in any worthy position to be this picky. But then again, I’ve always been an independent person and I rarely see myself officially “dating” anyone. I just hope he’s mistaking my sense of independence as to the reason why I am the way I am. It sure as hell boring sometimes, but I’m only 19, why worry about love, right?! That day will come, and whether I’m picky or not, there’s nothing that I can do to stop it. 　

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The subject of sexuality is very fluid and very difficult to define, of what it is and what it can be. Defining sexuality is just like defining what “love” means, it’s one thing to one person and something different for another. If you really knew me, you’d know that I’m totally not a person that would even worry about such things. My sexuality used to be such a big part of who I was, but it has become something of very little importance in my life. It was only a big part of my life because I feared of what my loved ones and friends would think about me, but I never really saw me being the way I am or other gay people as something different. Subsequently, I’ve always being the one to oppose labels, I don’t believe that they do anything but to separate people apart. I really don’t care if you call me bi or gay, the terms don’t really mean anything to me. However, only recently have I even thought over about my sexuality, and I’m starting to see more of where I stand. Sexually, when it comes to women, I’m definitely not “disgusted” nor do I mind doing, but when it comes to relationships and stuff I feel as though I’m more inclined to have one with a guy. If I were to try and break it down in numbers, it would probably be like 8 out 10 cases that I would have one with a guy and 2 out of 10 with a girl. For some, the term bisexuality is whether you’re sexually attracted to the opposite sex, as well as the same sex, but for other it’s whether you’re willing to have a relationship as well, so emotionally, mentally, and everything else. So, at this point, depending how you look at it I’d be bi or gay. :)

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When I was younger, I used to disregard most of the Vietnamese music, but it’s funny how that has changed. Like, 80% of what I listen to is Vietnamese nowadays. The songs are so breathtakingly beautiful, I can’t stop. 　

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I have a really stubborn and strong personality, and by that I mean I have strong opinions on things and I’m not afraid to point shit out or question it. Romantically, I don’t think I can ever be in a relationship with a pushover or someone who agrees easily on things. People like that bore me, real fast. I don’t necessarily want to argue with them, but I want someone who I can talk to and take me out of my comfort zone. I’m not fucking going anywhere if all you do is say yes. Then again, I don’t think people like that would want me anyways, but it’s all good. :)

Since I’ll be working with others for the two positions I’ve taken upon, Co-VP w/ @ada-diep (VASA) and Co-Fundraising w/ @danieldinh (Kapwa), I made sure to let them know. I don’t want them to easily back away from their ideas and simply agree with mine, that’s not the point in running as Co for anything. I want them to question. I want them to show me a different, possibly better, path instead of what I had in mind. Holding a Co position means that although you have someone to help you, you also need to be able to push the other person to be their best as well. We will argue, we will be discouraged at times, but what relationship is ever perfect?

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I’ve been bringing the boys out every single fucking day. On some days, I bring the boys out several times on end, but there are days that I just bring them out once. I, however, do make sure that they come out at least once a day. I just love them that much. As a matter of fact, I’m currently bringing them out as I write this post. :)

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Don’t say the things you don’t mean. You don’t want people just to tell you the things you want to hear, do you? Be honest and mean the shit you say. Likewise, don’t give anyone your least because you think they’re not worth your time or effort. You don’t want half-assed shit thrown your way, so don’t do it to others. Often times, the reason why you would think they’re not worth it is because you haven’t seen who they truly are yet. Treat people the same exact motherfucking way you want to be treated. It’s not hard. Not at all.

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I’m going to start a 90-day workout plan this summer! I have 110+ days in the entire summer, but I doubt that I could actually do all for them, so I reduced it down by almost a month. I really want to get back on that workout grind.　 Plus, my cousin recently decided to join and workout with me, so now I have a spotter! I’m around 125-ish right now, and I really want to be able to get to 140, I highly doubt it, but that’s the goal. I don’t necessarily want to get “raging big”, but I do want to gain some muscle mass. A two/three-hour commitment every day in the gym will pay off. I’m super excited just writing this post out. Haha. Woot! Can’t wait. :)

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